In His Own Words
About him
After devotion to wife and son for over 20 years separation came and while it’s fortunately been amicable, my main goals in life right now are to have fun and make new friends. I have two great jobs (psychotherapy and chess coaching) and have qualifications as life coach.
So I try to focus on the positives in life and enjoy walking in nature, playing tennis and padel, bridge and (recently!) swing dance.
I’m generous, intelligent and enjoy meeting new people, though fairly selective when looking for an intimate relationship. I’m looking for intelligence, kindness, and a trusting and sharing relationship. Could you be the one? I hope so 😀♥️
About his ideal match
Someone who is caring and loyal and calm and independent as well as interested in finding a friend for life.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford (West Oxford), Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Italian | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
North America; Central America; Asia; The Middle East; Australasia | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
38 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 8" (141cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Self-employed; Other | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Finnish; French; German; Italian; Norwegian; Russian; Spanish; Swedish; Other | ||
Other languages: |
English; French; German; Italian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Sport |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Meditation; Music; Painting; Reading; Sculpting |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Birdwatching; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Skiing; Snooker; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair; Power |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Older-Dating.com: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |



