In His Own Words
About him
Fun. Smart. Can cook. Can hold a conversation whilst looking you in the eye and have a heart.
Genuinely interested in you, oh and I have hair.
Animal lover and currently enduring two Westies bequeathed to me by my late wife and two cats - one as thick as mince, the other a potential Mensa member.
Was a keen rugby player but the knees relegated me to a spectator status. Like all the cultural stuff. Equally like cars far too much or a good book.
About his ideal match
Funny, intelligent, independent. Compassionate and likes a live band not looking for drama or complicated.
Does anything else matter?
Tick those boxes and everything else follows.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Castle Point, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
It's Complicated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; A short-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Europe; Canada; United States; Australia; New Zealand | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SS7 (Benfleet) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Separated; Divorced; Widowed; Partnered; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Instrumental; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Auto repair; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Internet; Music; Reading; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Swimming |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I don't have any family |
Family contact: |
I moved to be away from them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in a monogamous relationship |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Older-Dating.com: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |