In His Own Words
About him
I am a devoted and attentive partner. I have a history of stable, long-term relationships. I was married to my High School Sweetheart for 40 years before she passed, then was married to a best friend for the last 3 years before she, too, passed. I LOVE all kinds of gardening and plants, exploring plant habitats in the wild, and long road trips across the country. I am [@] a member of other horticultural clubs.
About his ideal match
I am looking for someone who is experienced in long-term relationships. After being married twice to people who ultimately passed away due to their physical handicaps, I am looking for someone who is in reasonably good health and mobility, as I am. Prefer HWP, as I am. Prefer that a partner is reasonably self-sufficient financially. I am financially secure as-is after retiring from Boeing after 29 years, and I don't mind sharing; but not looking to be a sugar daddy for someone. I am rather picky, I am highly valued in the older-partner space. Would like someone with a bit of a wild streak between the sheets, it is important to me. Intelligence and the ability to keep up with intelligent conversations. Most of all, someone KIND, nurturing, and willing to put in the work to make things work.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Tacoma (Spanaway), Washington | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Aries | |
Height: |
6' 5" (196cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Canada; United States | ||
Location: |
Idaho; Oregon; Washington | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Goofy |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Honesty; Hope; Kindness; Moderation; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Hair style: |
Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear bifocals |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Heavy Metal; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Business; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Educational; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Adult; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Gardening; Internet; Investing; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Baseball; Hiking; Shooting; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm |
Religious attendance: |
Once a week |
Dream home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Honesty: |
Very |